The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family， which brings about a number of conflicts in a family。 In my opinion， to limit the bad effects of the generation gap， each family should use the following three methods:
大部分的家庭免不了存在代沟，代沟给一个家庭带来很多冲突。我认为，为了控制代沟的不良影响，每个家庭都就应尝试以下方法：
First of all， it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings。 This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members。 For instance， once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood， they will stop plaining about the previous generations’ obsoleteness。 In the meantime， once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way， it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people’s new habits or hobbies。
首先，在家庭聚会的时候，家庭成员公开讨论自我的童年时期的快乐或悲伤是很重要的。这一活动不仅仅营造一种紧密的关系而且能够帮忙建立家庭成员之间的相互理解。比如说，一旦孩子们意识到他们的爷爷奶奶甚至是爸爸妈妈在艰苦的童年时期没有很好的成长，他们就会停止抱怨上一代人的陈旧思想。同时，一旦老一辈人意识到年轻人是在一种新的现代方式下成长，他们就很容易理解年轻人的习惯和爱好。
Secondly， people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves。 In order to do that， they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations。 Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially， and they would stop rebelling their strictness。 Parents would realize that their children’s new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children。
其次，每一代人都不就应高估自我。为此，他们不就应认为他们是家里唯一对的人，因为每个人都有自我的极限。青少年就应意识到，他们的父母务必与困苦斗争给他们带给经济上的支持，他们就会停止反抗父母的严厉。父母也就应意识到，孩子们的新风格不会影响学习，从而停止把自我不适宜的吧标准强加在孩子身上。
Finally， the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other。 I strongly believe that each family， by doing that， can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap。
最后，如果所有的成员合作起来去建立一个关系紧密的家庭关系以及能够坦诚和互相容忍融洽的氛围，代沟及其不良影响就能够得到限制。我坚信，透过这样做，每个家庭都能享有一个代沟干扰最小的舒适氛围。
Though many aspects of our social life havebeen improved,the generation gap between theyouths and the olders remain and even grows wider.
In my opinion, because of the influence ofinpidualism from western civilization,the youthsdo not blindly follow what the elders say,that causesthe young arecreative and revolutionary,always go along with the trend and the old, accustomed to everything of the past,are hostile to more and more different beliefs and philosophical ideas,it is natural the young holddifferent opinions from the old.
I think in order to narrow the gap,both parts should try to understand and respect eachother,instead of trying to change others as they doesn\'t mean conflict so longas they hold the right attitude towards the problems.
When I was young, my family bought a computer very early and had a broadband network. At that time, when my father and mother were at work, they locked me at home, and I was like a chicken in a cage. Little by little, I began to notice the --iron man-- at home -- because he was so far away from his father that he knew what was happening in foreign countries. Because of it, dad can always watch movies and play games. Because of it, mom has made so many friends. Slowly, I was in other classmates\' --guidance--, also played a --legendary-- online game, because my technology is good, so, my level is getting higher and higher. The man who had just started killing chickens became a master of martial arts. My technique is good, and the equipment is good, so many people in the network want to --worship me as a teacher--. My little vanity and pride were satisfied. Sometimes after losing a game, I kept buying better equipment and looking for that person --revenge--. This vicious cycle, I became more and more obsessed with the game. I\'m not impressed even if my friends are playing very exciting games outside. Therefore, I have put myself into a state of loneliness, making me become a person who can only play games.
Thanks to mom and dad I found this in time, and take the initiative to find I talk, encouraged me to speak the truth, at that time, my in the mind of the lonely was more than I could bear, he said: --I am very lonely, I want to play computer games.-- When my father and mother heard these words, they volunteered to work for me. Through this conversation, I finally got it. Things in real life are also wonderful, and relying on this virtual world is a sign of weakness. At the same time, I understand my father and mother\'s pains.
Through this matter, I understand that communication is the key to open the heart knot, communication is the foundation of life road, because there is communication to have our wonderful today! I hope you can communicate more and create a better future together.
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In the modern socienty,there is misunderstanding between parents and their parents always consider that their children do the wrong things, and their children always complain, their parents don\'t understand them,which leads to the generation gap.
There are two reasons. First the young man live in different environments from their parents\', so they alway have different ideas aboutproblems. Secondly the parents alway prevent their children from doing their favourite things which often cause a fight.
I think the generation gap can be handled if the parents and childrentry their best. They can have open talks and tell ideas to each other. They should realize every generation have their own strong and weak in this way,a better relationship will be built.
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在现代当前,父母和孩子之间有误解。父母总是认为他们的孩子做错了事情,和他们的孩子总是抱怨,他们的父母不理解他们,这导致了代沟。
有两个原因。首先,年轻人从他们的父母生活在不同的环境中,所以他们总是有不同的想法关于问题。其次父母总是阻止孩子们做他们喜欢的事往往造成打击。
我认为代沟是可以处理的,如果父母和孩子他们最好的。他们可以打开对话,告诉彼此的想法。他们应该意识到每一代人都有自己的强大和弱点。只有用这种方法,将建造一个更好的关系。
渐渐地我和母亲疏远了，有时一连几天我都不想和她说不上一句话，我发现我开始从心底里怨恨母亲了，--代沟--,这可真是个神奇的东西!
随着功课越来越紧张，我和母亲也越来越疏远了。虽然她也开始时不时地询问我的学习情况，虽然她也开始每天定时的.给我补充营养。可在我来看，她不像一个母亲，而更像一个亲戚。看来，感情的疏远，似乎真的隔断了我的认知。
后来有一次，我们学校调休，母亲让我到她学校看看，顺便也做做作业。学习之余，我觉得无聊，就走到窗口向外望去，正好可以看到母亲那间教室，她正专心地在给她的学生们讲课，忙碌的身影在教室里晃动着。我突然意识到自己是有点自私了，原来我是想独享母亲的爱。
那一刻，我突然感觉一股冲击从心底喷薄而出，震动着我的全身。我觉得那是源自割不断的亲情，那是心底的回音，我终于找回了被母爱包围的感觉。是啊，母亲是爱我的，只是她太忙了，她丢不下她的那些个孩子们，她丢不下她心爱的工作呀。此刻，我从心底里读懂了母亲，读懂了他对事业的执着，读懂了她对家庭的愧疚……
现在，我不再怨恨母亲了，笑容又重新回到了我的脸上，我不再是以前那个冷若冰霜的我了。母亲呢，仍一如既往地忙碌着，但也没忘记关心我。是亲情，血脉相连的亲情，消融了阻隔在我和母亲之间的代沟啊!
Parents say that children do not show them proper respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents do not understand them. This phenomenon is often referred to as the generation gap. What then are the causes of the generation gap?
One important cause of the generation gap is the chance that young people have to choose their way of life. In more traditional societies, when children grow up, they are expected to live in the same area as their parents, to marry people that their parents know and agree to, and to continue the family occupation. In modern society, young people often travel a great distance for their education, move out of the family at an early age, marry or live with people whom their parents have never met, and choose occupations different from those of their parents.
In the easily changing society, parents often expect their children to do better than they did: to find better jobs, to make more money; and to do all the things that they were unable to do. Often, however, the strong desire that parents have for their children are another cause of the disagreement between them. Often, they discover that they have very little in comMon with each other.
Finally, the speed at which changes take place in modern society is another cause of the gap between the generations. In a traditional culture, elderly people are valued for their wisdom, but in modern society, the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date overnight. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a future of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the changes of our society, and in the rapid speed at which society changes.
Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
如今，往往是缺乏了解父母与子女之间。孩子们总是抱怨他们的父母都是过时的，而父母并不赞同他们的孩子说的和做的。因此，形成一个大的代沟。
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
产生代沟的原因有很多。孩子们想要自由的选择自己的朋友，选择在学校自己的班级，规划自己的未来，自己挣钱自己花，和一般运行自己的更独立的生活方式比父母允许的。同时，年轻的孩子们希望能够得到父母的，但大多数父母不太了解他们的孩子。他们认为这是他们教他们的后代的传统信仰的责任。他们想让他们听话，在学校做得很好。因此，误解往往从父母倾向于干涉孩子的日常活动。
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
在我看来，父母和子女间的代沟问题可以通过双方的共同努力，增进相互理解的解决。
不知从何时起，“代沟”成为人们普遍议论的话题。一时间，“相互理解、信任、默契”成了两代人共同追求的目标，无数不同的家庭，似乎有相同的使命——“填代沟”!
代沟，非填不可吗?
要回答这个问题，必须先看看“代沟”是什么。它主要是两代甚至几代人由于时代、生活环境、所受教育以及生活经历的不同而造成的在人生观、价值观、审美观等各方面的看法不同。
代沟必须被填平，得说出它的不合理性才行。它的不合理性在哪里?在于两代人的意见不合吗?只要略懂一点历史就知道，社会的进步，是通过人类认识自然、改造自然的能力进步来实现；而人类的认识和能力的进步，正是因为每一代人都不同程度地超越了先人。所以两代人对客观世界看法有差异，这本是天经地义的。假如现在的社会，几代人想法如出一辙，默契无比，根本无“代沟”可言，那倒真不是什么好事情。不说远的，假设近两百年前，几代人“同心同德”，则饱学之士固然摇着脑后的辫子陶醉在普天下的“理解与信任”中，小姑娘亦是踌躇满志，因为裹了那样小的脚，连阴沟都跨不过，望见“代沟”更是要发晕了。不知那些热心于填代沟者可乐意去过那种日子呢?
再者说，填代沟，怎么填?只有三种方法，要么老一辈向小一辈“妥协”，要么小一辈向老一辈“投降”。再就是两边一起开步走，来个“胜利会师”，握手言和。这容易办到吗?两代人都有自己的经历、自己的价值观念，自己的看法，你想把它们拼命揉合在一起，任何一方都不愿接受别人强加的思想。而且，就算揉合在一起，又有什么用呢?牺牲家庭内部的“争鸣”气氛，去换取所谓的“了解、一致”，这必要不必要?巴金名著《家》中的那个家，是毫无疑问有着宽深的“代沟”，并且高老太爷和觉慧，这“代沟”两边的代表，是绝不妥协的。而高觉新，正是为了家庭的“理解、融洽”而充当了“填沟人”。他填进去的是什么?是他的青春、他的前途、甚至于他的妻子!而他所换来的，终究只是家庭最后的破裂。“代沟”这个社会现象是自然的，也是必然的。
那么，不填又怎么样?今天的中国人，应该有勇气、有胆量，面对“代沟”的存在说一声：“不填，又怎么样!”
“代沟”是普遍的，对于一定的家庭，不可能表现在所有观点上都相同，因此它的存在纯属正常(至于那些关于生活上具体问题的家庭纠纷，是经济问题或感情问题，不在“代沟”之属，所以，遇到实际问题，家庭成员可讨论决定。一般的问题则不必强求一致，你上你的班，我上我的学，让时间来证明究竟谁对谁错。
地球诞生亿万年，至今仍在活跃地运动着。地壳的运动使这星球上有高山，也有深谷，还有沙漠。它在变化，也在成熟。没有人想去把地球上的高山削低、深谷填平。高低起伏，原是大地本色。沟壑纵横，岂不也正是人生本色?既然如此，那么——代沟，不填也罢!
Generation gap, simply is the idea of the thoughts of the people of different age groups for gap caused by the psychological distance. Just as a ditch, separated by the generation of people, affect the understanding and communication between two generations. But in the new century, the generation gap exists not only between the generation and the next generation, and separated by 10 years, 8 years in age between people, even between senior and junior in the university, there will be amazing. People often say, the generation gap is the trace of time, the pace of change. In that case, a generation gap is natural, but there is no generation gap is not natural, so, the generation gap phenomenon is easy to be understood. But generation gap is after all the difficulties in communication, and easy to increase the likelihood of formation of prejudice and discrimination, one light on either side of the generation gap, mutual understanding, or hostile, so we also should through various channels for various efforts to bridge the generation gap, to fill the gap. Actually, the generation gap is not a physical existence, but a psychological, contact, can let once broken psychological link between generation and generation succeeded, so as to achieve smooth communication and get along with harmony.
Objective existence of the generation gap and calmly treat the generation gap, not only help yourself, also benefit others.
The generation gap is often the deviations in understanding the psychological cause. People choose the different Angle of information, determine someone looks at changes and differences, some focus on the same and similar. So people can not accept directly or next generation and the differences of their generation, often associated with the selectivity of intellectual.
The child\'s world, very different from adults, geared pretty tube, will hinder greatly the development of the child. This is lu xun said a word.
今年已经16岁了，我很疑惑，到底我活着，是为了做什么。难道就是为了生存在这个世界完成父母的心愿？难道就一定要为此而放弃自己的梦想？
我正在房间做作业。然而心里却迫不及待想着去练歌，写作。但是为了能去，也只能先专心致志的地做着。
“你姐姐一天到晚唱歌，你也开始了是不是，她想考音乐大学我是不允许的，必须给我报军校。考不上军校也得给我考另外的。”
即使是很专心的地把心思投入在作业上，却听见外面的爸爸指责妹妹。是的，爸爸曾经一直希望我考军校，但是，这个要求，我不能做到。但是，爸爸仍然抱着这个愿望不曾放弃，很久，已经没有提起这个问题，现在又源源不断的地提了出来。妹妹呢，和我一样，都热衷于音乐，却连连遭到爸爸的反对。我想过，为什么爸爸会不同意？可又不敢问问他。我知道现在的我对爸爸极其的不满，因为他从来不尊重我的想法。
16岁的自己，也应该有了自己的想法了吧。但是，做什么都需要经过爸爸的同意。我家中有个妹妹，学习不怎么好，因此，希望都只寄托在我的身上，于是，我失去了很多自由与快乐。在学校里，我总能展现自己开朗的一面，而在家中，是沉重的功课再加上沉重的功课。如山的\\\'作业中有很大一部分就是爸爸施来的压力。
今天天气很冷，雨飒飒的，风也飒飒的。听到那句话的我真的有很多压力，我不想放弃自己的梦，也不想让爸爸失望，虽然他给我施加压力，但毕竟，他是我的父亲，我是他的希望。我该怎么办呢？
“代沟”简单地说就是不同年龄层次的人因思想观念上的差距造成的心理距离。就象沟一样，隔开了一代一代的人，影响两代人之间的理解和沟通。
人们常常说，代沟是时间的痕迹，变革的脚步。如此看来，出现代沟是自然的，没有代沟反倒是不自然的，所以，代沟现象也容易被人理解。我认为代沟是两代人之间在人生观、理想、生活方式等方面的隔阂。
例如生活方式：早上我妈妈很早的起来，然后给我和爸爸、弟弟买早餐。一年四季都是这样，有很多次我都对此很反感，觉得妈妈没必要每天都起的这么早，可妈妈觉得没什么。
一家人坐在餐桌上吃饭，爸爸妈妈都喜欢吃菜和面食，说是吃面、菜有营养;而我却喜欢吃肉，吃米。就拿喝粥来说，例如小米粥：我爸爸妈妈喝的里面全是小米一点汤都没，而我里面一粒米都没有。
不仅生活方式不同，连对事物的看法也有着差异。例如出去逛街买衣服，我喜欢去那些名店买衣服虽然贵了些但是时尚有个性;我妈妈喜欢去那些小摊小贩买她认为在哪买便宜又好看比那些名店强多了。有时好不容易两人相中一件衣服，可是又因为各自有自己认为的颜色，老妈喜欢土颜色，而我喜欢炫丽的颜色。至于我老爸呢?它往往支持我老妈。出去一趟买几件衣服这这些原因变成了我一个人和他们两个人争论，弄得唾沫星子满天飞舞才罢休。到最后不得不听他们的。
有句俗话说父母吃的盐比我们吃的米都多。父母比我们对这个世界了解的也多。但是社会的发展迅速，他们以前的生活观念在如今这个21世纪是不适用的。而我们是新时代青年，我们正跟这个潮流社会迅速发展成长，父母是跟不上我们的，我们也不可能停下来等父母的。有时父母不但不理解还用他们那些过了时的观念来压制我们，由此我们和父母之间形成了代沟。
Recently, I heard some people boast that today\'s young people may encounter the generation gap problem of people who are obviously five years older than them. This reflects the rapid development of society. I am optimistic that through our efforts to narrow the generation gap, this generation gap can be narrowed.
To answer this question, first of all, we should find out the factors that cause the generation gap. Today\'s young people are living in the same place In a totally different environment from their parents or grandparents, young people have to learn more and more in the face of knowledge explosion. The younger generation contacts the outside world through the Internet every day.
They can see, hear and feel the new trend. The influence of this environment shapes the characteristics of the new generation. They are often more open and energetic than their elders.
Therefore, some of their behaviors are different On the other hand, people are busy with all kinds of affairs, so there is not much time for interpersonal communication. Young people are gradually replacing face-to-face communication with online chat. In this case, it is very difficult for parents to get in touch with their children.
Intergenerational barriers do exist, but these barriers can be eliminated in the first place. I suggest that the older generation should work hard to learn more about new things. They should seize every opportunity to talk with their children about their new discoveries, so that both sides can find out what they have in common.
Second, young people are also We should learn to appreciate the old people\'s hobbies or tastes. We should not underestimate the traditional treasures, such as Beijing opera. Third, the two generations should take some time to communicate regularly or write to each other, because writing is a good way of communication.
To narrow the generation gap, people should take mutual understanding as the most important thing.
中文翻译：
Live with thankfulness Do you know Thanksgiving Day?Do you know why human thank God? Thanksgiving falls on the fourth Thursday of November, a different date every year. The President must proclaim that date as the official celebration.
Thanksgiving is a time for tradition and sharing. Even if they live far away, family members gather for a reunion at the house of an older relative. All give thanks together for the good things that they have. In this spirit of sharing, civic groups and charitable organizations offer a traditional meal to those in need, particularly the homeless. On most tables throughout the United States, foods eaten at the first thanksgiving have bee traditional. What should we thank?
The thankful great universe provides the environment of existence for us and give us sunlight, air, water and everything in keeping with we existence of space, bring storm to let us accept to toughen for us, bring to us mysterious let us look for. The thankful parents give us the life, make us feel the merriment of the human life, feel the genuine feeling of the human life, feel the ity of the human life, feel happiness of the human life, also feel hardships and pain and sufferings of the human life!
The thankful teacher works with diligence and without fatigue everyday of teach, give us knowledge ability, put on the wing which flies toward the ideal for us. The thankful classmate and friend grows up road of, let I no longer standing alone in the itinerary of life;The with gratitude is frustrated and let us bee in a time the failure stronger.
Generation gap refers to the misunderstanding between the old and the young. This word became popular after the s. In recent years, however, the generation gap has become more and more serious.
The first reason for the generation gap is that two generations grow up at different ages, so they have different attitudes towards life. Second, because they have nothing in common, they are not willing to sit down and talk face to face. In addition, due to the great pressure of modern life, they are busy studying or working, and have no time to exchange opinions.
It is not easy to narrow the generation gap. However, we can do something. On the one hand, children should respect their parents, on the other hand, they should accept their good suggestions.
Parents should not only express love for their children, but also support their good outlook on life, as long as they are old If children can understand each other, the family and the world will be more harmonious.
中文翻译：
代沟是指老年人和年轻人之间的误解，这个词在世纪年代以后开始流行起来。然而，近年来，代沟现象越来越严重。代沟产生的第一个原因是两代人在不同的年龄段长大，因此他们对生活有不同的态度第二，由于彼此没有什么共同点，他们不愿意坐下来面对面交谈。
另外，由于现代生活压力太大，他们都忙于学习或工作，没有时间交换意见，缩小代沟一点也不容易，但我们可以做点什么来做，一方面孩子应该尊重父母，另一方面也要接受他们的好建议，父母不仅要对孩子表达爱护之情，而且要支持他们良好的人生观，只要老幼双方能相互理解，家庭和世界就会更加和谐。
Every new generation is different from the one that preceded it . Today the difference is very marked indeed.
Old people are always saying that the young are not what they were . The same comment is made from generation to generation and it is always true . It has never been truer than it is today . The young are better educated . They have a lot more money to spend and enjoy more freedom . They grow up quickly and are not so dependent on their parents . They think more of themselves and do not blindly accept the idea of their elders . Even which the older generation remembers vividly are nothing more than past history .
Just look at the teenage girls who scream hysterically over the pop stars and the teenage boys who copy the stars and grow their hair long and are no longer ashamed of wearing “pretty”clothes , are simply breaking through the Chinese traditional reserve and fear of showing their feelings . what is more, nowadays most boys and girls are good companions and some of them even fall in“puppy love .”a lot of older people sigh and say ,“we did not use to do like this .”
Do you think the older people’s criticism stems from jealousy just because they could not or did not behave in the same way when they were young ?
Communication plays a significant role in our daily life, especially in modern society. Since we get along with other people in every field, we must learn how to communicate with people effectively.
Effective communication should be planned carefully. First, speak slowly and briefly in order to make ourselves understood completely. Second, express ourselves in all sincerity and with warmth. Third, concentrate on what the speaker says and appreciate his point of view. Moreover, we should give positive feedback by nodding or smiling while listening. Fourth, place ourselves in the place of others.
As far as I＇m concerned, I communicate with other people in a positive way whether I＇m in a merry mood or not. And I often express my own opinion genuinely and sincerely.
At present, the generation gap problem has never been a problem that can not attract our attention. Many educators and parents have put forward their own views from different angles. There are three reasons for this risk.
In addition, I think there are three reasons for the generation gap. First of all, it is worth mentioning that people have different education and formed different world outlook The education of children is different from that of their parents, which leads to the rebellion of parents who want their children to follow the traditional values. Therefore, the conflict between parents and children seems inevitable.
In addition, the lack of communication is also the reason why many parents do not realize the importance of communication. In their mind, children should obey them, which is very natural. But in the children\'s mind, their parents do not attach importance to modern development, advanced technology, and their real ideas.
Only a few parents and children think that they are right to do so, and they are the most important They don\'t want to communicate with each other. It is because of the great influence of the media that they exaggerate the importance of personality to a great extent. Therefore, many children think it is cool to resist their parents.
Therefore, people will have misunderstanding and prejudice on this issue. I think the following measures should be taken first. Parents should actively communicate with their children and provide them with more humanized services Families should create a relaxed educational environment.
Finally, they should advocate of speech, give children a series of knowledge, encourage them to understand their parents and think from their parents\' standpoint. Only by taking these practical measures can this problem be solved step by step and go with the wind.
中文翻译：
According to the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion, differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is no doubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are big differences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old are outdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, the fashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up with their standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”. Thus, the generation gap becomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinions can be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn to accept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmonious life.
由于社会背景，个人的经历和个人情感的不同，不同的人对事情有不同的看法。因此，毫无疑问代沟随处可见。 我们总是发现我们和老一代之间有很大的差异。我们总是认为他们思想守旧，而他们却觉得我们疯狂。他们不能忍受我们喜欢的衣服，我们追求的时尚甚至是我们幼稚的思维方式。相反，我们觉得他们思想保守，“封建专制”。因此，代沟越来越明显和严重。但是，为什么我们没有意识到想法是可以改变的，而人却是不可以的。所以，我们可以尝试换位思考，学会去接受。可以肯定的\'是，我们可以缩小代沟过上更和谐的生活。
At present, never is the issue concerning generation gap failing to attract our eyes. Many educators and parents present their opinions from different angles. As I see it, there are three following factors contributing to this risk and also,three solutions can be outlined respectively. As for its causes, I think that three reasons are worth mentioning. To begin with, people receive different education and form different outlooks of the world. The education children receive today is different from that of their parents, thus causing that parents want their children to follow the traditional values as a rebellion, So, conflict between parents and children seems unavoidable. In addition, lack of communication also accounts for the fact. Many parents fail to realize the importance of communication and in their minds, children should obey them and it id natural. However, in children’s minds, their parents do not value the modern development ,advanced technology, their real thoughts, to mane just a few, Both parents and children do believe that they themselves are right. In this way , they do not wangt to communicate with each other. Finally, it is due to the big influence of media which wsually exaggerates the importance of inpiduality that many children regard rebellion against their parents as cool and fantastic. Hence, misunderstanding and prejudice will be produced. To sovel this problem,I do believe the following measures should be taken. First, parents ought to communicate positively with their children and give them more person-to-person services. What is more, a looser educational enviorment should be created in every family and free speech should be advocated. Last ,a range of knowledge should be given to children and they should be encouraged to understand their parents and think in their parents’ positions. In conclusion, only when these practical measures are taken will this problem be dealt with step by step and be gone with the wind.
今天去三院复查眼睛视力，复查完后就去了对面的一家肯德基，妈妈点完菜，我们就开始吃，我吃得津津有味，嘴都忙不过来了。当我想吃\\--鸡块\\--的时候，发现酱拿错了，我起身去洗手池洗了洗手，就拿着\\--甜辣酱\\--去换\\--糖醋酱\\--，刚好点餐台那边挺空的，只有一个顾客，却有三个服务员，于是便兴高采烈的说：\\--阿姨，换一下酱，换成糖醋酱！\\--那位\\--小姐\\--没听见的样子跑到后厨去了。我心里顿时波折了一下：好吧，算我声音小，全当您没听见。我刻意提高了一倍嗓音地对右边的服务员说了同样的话，那\\--第二位小姐\\--对我左边正在给顾客点餐的服务员说了声：\\--我来帮你！\\--冥冥之中，就把我当成了空气，我想说的是：您不需要空气吗？我的心脏暂停了5秒，我咽了一口唾沫，看了看我旁边的这位顾客，她没表情地看了我一眼，这时，那\\--第一位小姐\\--从后厨回来了，我就又立刻叫了一声：\\--阿姨……\\--话还没说完，这位\\--小姐\\--就低下头去拿袋子帮忙装可乐，我有点火了：不到一米的距离，我叫那么大声您听不见？
在她装可乐的时候我又连叫了她三声阿姨，她愣是装聋子，相信我旁边的那个顾客都快看不下去了，我顿时觉得特别尴尬，于是，就不喊了，干脆靠在了台子边等她们\\--空下来\\--。突然，余光发现\\--第一位小姐\\--空下来了，居然宁愿看着那位正在招待顾客的人打包，也不理我，也不问我需要什么我转过身，凑上去，说：\\--阿姨，换酱。\\--她却还是当作什么也没有发生。我扭头细声说道：\\--居然敢不理我！\\--
于是乎我又提高了一倍嗓音，接着把手里的酱\\--啪\\--地放在了她面前，说：\\--阿姨，换……\\--也许是听到了我刚刚的细语，又也许是我提高了两倍的声音，她装聋子装不下去了，没等我话说完话，她就帮我换了酱，但是换给我的酱居然放在桌上甩给我的，给酱来了个漂移。我拿着酱，气冲冲地回到了座位，恶狠狠地咬了一口\\--鸡块\\--。妈妈问我怎么回事，我用十几个字回复了妈妈。妈妈居然拿着手机，打着\\--斗地主\\--，对我说：\\--又不是像你想的那样：每一个肯德基的服务都很好，现在的服务业就这样，你要是不满意，可以投诉的。\\--我大口大口的吃完了\\--鸡块\\--，一口气喝下了半杯滚烫的咖啡，妈妈看我气成这样，居然说：\\--你就这样的承受能力，以后怎么在社会上怎么生活啊！\\--我表示不语。
突然，我身后走过一个老奶奶，她对我旁边一桌的单独吃的小女孩说：\\--奶奶我先走了，你在这里等你外婆！\\--声音超大，还是土话，周围人都看着她，弄的女孩超尴尬。女孩点了点头表示明白了。不料，那位老奶奶还拜托旁边的服务员，让他看着她点儿不要让她先走了，要等她外婆来了，女孩瞬间苦笑：难道这她不懂吗？然后又皱起了眉头，我真为她感到悲哀：成了所有人的焦点。
不到五分钟的时间，我和妈妈出了肯德基，边走边聊，无意中聊到了那个女孩。妈妈说：\\--那个小女孩就和你们现在的小孩一样，冷漠对待长辈。\\--我说：\\--那是因为那位老奶奶不将她的自尊心放在眼，你不知道现在青春期的孩子自尊心很强吗？\\--妈妈说：\\--那只是你们不尊重长辈的一种借口罢了……\\--
我顿时石化，为什么长辈与晚辈的遇事的看法都是不同的，甚至是相对的？
难道，这就是代沟吗？
A complex problem –generation gap Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world. Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values.
This case may more easily happen in teenagers. The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off. Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried. They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about. Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies. Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative. They may talk with their friends more often than their parents. In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable problem.
Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect. The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts. Second, listen more than talk. It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer. At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly.
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves. But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe. And then they will come to understand their parents.
A few years ago it was fashionable to speak of a generation gap. Parents complained that children didn’t show them proper respect and obedience, while children complained that their parents didn’t understand them at all. Many critics argue that it is built into the fabric of our society.
One cause of the generation gap is the opportunity that young people have to choose their own life. In traditional socieries, children live in the same area as their parents, marry people their parents know and approve of, and often continue the family occupation. In our society, people often move out of the home at an early age, marry or live with people their parents have never met, and choose occupations that are rather different.
In our upwardly mobile society, parents often expect their children to be better than them. However, these ambitions for their children are another cause of the pision between them. Often they discover that they have very little in common.
Finally, the speed of change in our society is another cause of it. In a traditional culture, people are valued for their wisdom, but in our society the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a feature of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the freedoms and opportunities of our society, and in the rapid pace at which society changes.
Generation GapDespite various improvements in all aspects of social life,the gen-eration gap between the grown-up and the young remains grows wider youths do not blindly follow what their elders to widespread education,the influence of Western civilization,to certain extent,gives them a new code of philosophy,which is com-pletely different from that of their invisible cold wall thus ap-pears between the two youths are trying to be more have their own interpretation for different matters;they also have their own reluctance to learn old teachings and saying becomes the constant friction between the two always introduce new old people,wedded to everything of the past,are hostile to changes and the generation gap becomes wider and all,the young generation,like the old one,is made of flesh and young also need respect and they also have skills and good order to narrow the gap,both groups should respect each other,listen to the words of each other and should discuss their prob-lems probably,these suggestions may help to solve the problem.
How to narrow the generation gap is a common problem. How to narrow the generation gap? I think there are some ways to solve this problem. First, parents try to understand their children.
Second, children can\'t mistakenly think that parents don\'t help them. You know, parents always give the best to their children. Third, both sides should learn how to live in harmony.
Only in this way can we narrow the generation gap.
中文翻译：
如何缩小代沟代沟是一个常见的问题如何缩小代沟我认为有一些方法可以解决这个问题首先，父母试着了解自己的孩子第二，孩子不能错误地认为父母不帮助他们你知道，父母总是把最好的给孩子第三，双方都应该学会如何和睦相处，只有这样才能缩小代沟。
Accordingto the variety of social background, personal experience and personal emotion,differernt people have different opinions towards things. Thus, there is nodoubt that generation gap exists everywhere. We always find that there are bigdifferences between us and the old generation. We always regard the old areoutdated, while they think us are crazy. They can’t bear the dress we like, thefashion we pursue or even our childish thinking. Instead, we could put up withtheir standpat thingking and their “feudal rulers”.
Thus, the generation gapbecomes more and more obvious and serious. However, why don’t we realize that opinionscan be changed, while people can’t. So, we can think in an other way, learn toaccept. It is certain that we can narrow the generation gap to live a more harmoniouslife.
